Anti-naked marriage-laws forced me to come up with her parents subsidizing

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My husband and I fell in love 12 2010 the years 5 months 20 licensing marriage, spiritual life and economic life, both chose the spiritual life.We really love each other no desire Naked Wedding: No ring, no wedding, no dinner party.

When we step on campus, as the new youth into the community, to society ignorant or depth of a young couple in the crowd, our lives can not be said to be very rich, but we are each other was very satisfied and happy.

our hard work, the end of last year we finally decided to buy a house (our unit allocation, I qualified), her husband came to Beijing from the field, and now this is a fairly stable work.

buy a house, had wanted to down payment 20% , but when savings have to cobble together in the process, both sides parents are asking for more pay more, my parents to let us reduce stress, days can be more favorable to sell them another set of residential, I felt very sad, rejected; his parents' home my family wealthy parents the absence of a formal unit workers, no health insurance, no pension and no savings, he also rejected the mouth and at home, have decided to give up, real estate tell us the down payment must be .

In this way, the down payment is not enough mouth so my husband and his parents want the money, a million parents, he loves his sister gave him 5 Wan, my parents still resolutely to sell the house, so I have a lump sum, the house is now down, there is no decoration, the husband on the mouth to ask me for money, said to be also to his sister the 5 million (plus a million of his parents) on the grounds that I did not use their parents' money to the housing fund a lump sum, only by 7 the thousand dollars, to do the loan, I unbalanced, unwilling to these and quarrel with their husband, our feelings.

My parents loved me, and I can not use the money they sell the house to go back to the husband's family, have for their home now know that my parents sold the house, and every day to call my husband, in addition to money, or money, I have not let go, if returned to his parents, it is necessary to use my parents sell the money, I do not speak these things and my parents, elderly people are in bad health, I must give my parents able to save their savings.their pension, to prepare for the troubles.

Zheng, husband home every day, forcing us, I do not have to say these things, he always felt, did not want a penny in vain to marry his son, people look down on and have no respect for me My personality is too mild and do not like the odds and people get angry, but they can not do this to me, I had thought of divorce, there is no way.

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is afraid of your marriage" home"can be attributed, decided to sell the residence, your parents will give you the money to a new house, according to all normal thinking, your parents no doubt is the world's greatest wife's parents, compared them to the old couple, your husband's family, her husband is too self-interest, you marry them, they can not afford to give you a destination booing, in turn, and forced you to come up with her family money to back his sister is really outrageous! Is premarital too advocate love this stuff, or your home life is not good to eat oil to make you scared dog eyes and see clearly the essential things of this man? !

divorce is certainly not your choice, or let your parents completely disappointed and could not bear the pain of hard to force your husband and in-laws will not let you have a better life, you why not just take your husband back to the time her parents, their parents' money simply returned to the parents got to thank them for their kindness, I tell them this money you really can not, not afraid of you do not have a house live, but afraid you do this more and more accustomed to the dependence of the husband and in-laws.

hands thoroughly did not let them worrying about money, and have actually be beneficial to resolve your contradictions, and then change to change your introverted, mild temper, do not contradiction, uncomfortable stuffy in his heart, Some things need to speak out, first, that your attitude, the second is a active and timely communication, the For example, you can tell her husband : married to nothing, just as you truly start from scratch, we do not rely on parents to rely on their own, with both hands to create their own home; allow the husband's family to see your heart is still their home, should be moved, which Also let your husband see your heart, unless he is really bad mud to help on the walls!

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