Emotion over the top": Do not dirty my love

This article published in the February issue of public health in 2012, reproduced please indicate the source.

[Case] ​​ my four months abroad, they learned that her husband track facts .I do not know when they started, he and the woman did not dare to know, because I did not immediately rushed to the front of him face to face confrontation with him, I'm afraid I can not stand he has already betrayed the fact.

married 6 years, we have two lovely children, family all the scenes with happiness shattered by this sudden news, I pressure to have asthma gas, it is in-depth bone marrow general pain.Every night fell, a closing to eye is are entangled with the screen, unable to sleep.I how? Can not control to imagine as unbearable scenes.

I want to divorce, he refused, he said just for fun did not really dynamic love.Now, he has to fly from the domestic to me, is to be able to retain the marriage, but I found that has been unable to face him, will not be able to face the feelings of this has been tainted.

feel dirty , all the woman touch pro touch .I can not stand him to touch me, even if it is pull to hand will feel evil heart, that feeling will stand horse my mind, followed by will really

What is emotional over the top"?

We often heard that"over the top" the word is to describe a person too much love to clean, dirty things to endure threshold limit lower than the others.Over the top are mostly psychological over the top, got a little older who still think that the naked eye can not see the dirty things, not clean enough.So over the top is more a psychological level, not just dirty"sensitive".

love clean, natural good health habits, but everything too far, seriously over the top is a kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder.Obsessive-compulsive disorder the most common are the following three forms:

First, the for wash Di forced the disease most commonly see a female more than; Second, for inspection by male Oasis more than ; is repeated now 's all kinds of forced concept read .

more than just broadly divided into class , actual between the two, three or all hair students in the same person is also a lot of .

visible, usually we often say"over the top" is the first case.The lady mentioned in the case belong to the type of the first and third at the same time, both on dirty-sensitive, more is the psychological feelings of betrayal aversion.One would like to heartache lot of trouble, but get rid of have to think.

emotional experience for this kind of emotional entanglement, we have called"emotional over the top.

why emotion over the top"?

1 Many people think that the emotion over the top" more narrow-minded, this argument is not a sufficient basis for.On the contrary, any person who has suffered emotional crisis may appear"emotional over the top", because people instinctively, the impression of a negative memory will be more profound.