I heard my husband and Ai-ai sound

Cheng:

Hello! Read your blog and appreciate your pointing marriage, for our women to help these vulnerable groups out of the woods, I have to ask my question to you, please take the time to reply me!

My husband and I married three or four years have a lovely daughter, 4 years old, my husband to do business in the field for three years, I work at home during which our feelings have always been good friends accused the model couple, family and friends how to advise my husband and wife separated No, I firmly believe that our relationship will not be a problem, I really trust her husband.

may the night before, the nightmare 11, point of the body in different places, her husband is not home, I worried about the hit the phone.I continue to play through the first two phone nobody answer, no one spoke, and did not get there what happened, Qi Jia good panic, I hung up the telephone played in the past, or no one to speak, and then heard groans of the men and women having sex, then I can not express in words, I hang up the phone, can not believe this man is my husband, so I fought in the past, through telephone or the sound of the men and women having sex woman voices, I listened to 2034 (2034 every day through a lot of phone call) the familiar voices of the people, I recorded the sound of this voice.

this recording until their The behavior of the end, then I immediately played in the past, asked him one minute before his behavior.Him a deny, deny to this day, even if I call the recording to listen to his own, he was denied justifiably accused me vexatious, told his parents down the mold, do not want to live, and threatened not like I will pour mold wife.

he committed a mistake, he also rational, iron, like the evidence before us he do not recognize, said the young man was not his, I said to take forensic institutions certified sound to shock his mistake, or do not recognize, I think as long as he frankly told me to explain the situation betrayed, then, continue to deceive? Rectifies repentance or good comrades, I want to give him a chance, give this family a chance, he does not recognize, told me how to do? I thought about to sign a loyalty agreement with him, always remind the consequences of his betrayal, he no longer betray the best once again betrayed feelings of marriage, but also a little property to protect, but I am afraid it will be our feelings rupture the catalyst.

asked the teacher to give me guidance, I am really helpless, hope-speed back!

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any agreements, contracts are anti-gentleman is not anti-villain, loyalty agreement also has the"effectiveness", you constantly remind the performance may not be able prompted him neatly, but make him more and more tired of you , you are getting winded too, if he is really the heart is not in here, it would certainly be willing to give up marriage, abandoned feelings, the property may not be what he wants, you say such a move is not catalyzed the breakdown of your feelings ? ! No wonder he says you are his"mold", also threatened to"bad luck" will not continue, think about your behavior, I will not speak is"to arouse his suspicions," is not really changing nothing in will he push it? !

Remove your phone that part of the dirty recording at least make your ears quiet, put away your trick, the first over their own lives, you men will always be yours, in order to have to let your own heart can hold him back, rather than the old how to grasp his evidence, to clean up the derailment, before giving him the opportunity to come-to your opportunity.make Zhicuojiugai you have realized that there is nothing wrong, wrong, instead of old would like to ask him to change, you change, he would be touched.

separated the two become your marriage is the biggest obstacle, you see that there is no solution, for example, he is always busy with work, no time, you can take the initiative, many times to walk around there, and occasionally take my daughter needed to blow off Johnson , stimulate his fatherly heart, make him aware of their responsibilities, believe that the over-a is a credulous, and credulity is the natural enemy of the feelings, will give the opportunity of his promises, a lot of time moderate tension and control, but also to seize the a means of marriage, especially when he is not around you.